BY CYNAID CREE
When we think about our interests we sometimes think that the person who shares all our interests is the right person we should be seeking a potential partner in.For years we have been looking in one direction only.I've come to realise that the most important thing when seeking a potential partner is having a healthy conversation.You don't need to be amazed or seem interested in all of your partner or future partners interests but engaging in some of it shows appreciation that their interests are important to you because they are important to you.When you come to think of it all people can be loving,kind,caring no matter what their interests are.The question of opposites attracting is merely based on interests which we cannot form a basis on for all relationships.
When you look at the entire situation you will come to realise that we all form part of a smaller piece to a puzzle.When we use our interests and talents to help and compliment each other then we make for a happy relationship.Yes we do have a varying amount of interests.Having your own interests not only keeps you busy but it makes you YOU.Having your own interests not only keeps you happy and active but allows you the quality time to appreciate each other when you do spend time together.Sometimes the reason for opposites attracting is that unconsciously we seek to be more of what is missing in our so called DNA and so an introverted person who comes into contact with an extroverted person who will now be able to take on a new challenge that they might not have taken on their own and grow as a person.An opposite personality attracting will help create balance to what you need in your life.This also goes for an extrovert.If a person is zippy racing through life,they may not be able to see what they are doing,to stop and smell the roses once in a while.Only an introverted person will be able to show this person what they would have missed whilst becoming so busy doing anything and everything in sight.Meeting opposites does have success because our lifestyles becomes balanced and a healthy relationship is all about creating a healthy balance.This does not necessarily mean that we have to look for opposites because if extroverted or introverted people meet opposites and either one suggested something.They would probably think you want to change them and so it wont work for people who are stubborn.Creating balance happens gradually and when both people who have qualities of honesty,kindness and patience first,you can apply the rules of opposites and watch how you will grow and change positively in your relationship living a balanced lifestyle for each other.
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