BY CYNAID CREE
Have you ever being misunderstood?felt angry for a long time and not resolved it.Life is too short to wait for tragedies to appreciate the love wer're given in our lives.It doesn't matter if its your partner,a family member or a friend.Sometimes love can be toxic and at other times love just needs forgiveness to renew something that was broke.The thing about Family love is no matter how much we all fight,we're back being brother and sister again.If we used this concept in our lives I bet most of our love fears can be fixed.I always get mails from Mona Wind.She said something that was so close to what I'm always writing about I thought I'd share it with you too.We all need a bit of love advice in our lives.You're never too old for it.Read the paragraph below from Mona Wind
"Yes, I have been turned down many a time and misunderstood. Often times it's from the ones I expect will
reciprocate. Oye.. that hurts the most. Yet I understand that the other person might not be ready, doesn't want to or know how to fully receive, is to scared to, or their conditioning stops them.
1. Love is NOT a two way street. Yes, you heard me! It's not, I
love you so you love me. This limited way of being love will
make you sick to your stomach. You'll always be waiting to be
loved when you can just BE LOVE. Every little cell in your
system is filled with love. Only you, your family, society,
beliefs, experiences can shut it down. It is the very fiber of
your being. You can hold it in like bad gas all you want, but
you cannot help but want to express love. Here's a picture of a
cute puppy. I dare you to hold in your love now!
I remember one of my friends saying “I love you,” with deep
emotion. And then he became paralyzed with the outburst of his
true self as if he'd done a hideous thing. That's when I
realized that he had some “rules” and he'd broken them.
2. Love has no rules. That's not love, that's some nonsensical
limitation that says that you're only allowed to love people
who are single, nice, family (unless they're im-perfect!),
friends, pets, plants, love you back, pretty, funny, rich,
handsome, beautiful.... blah blah. This keeps you stuck and
limited in your loving. The most horrific part is that society,
friends, family who believe love is an exchange of energy
between two people that is limited, will limit you as well.
In conclusion, tell whomever you love and want to love that you
love them. Time is flying by (almost 2012), opportunities are
passing, take the ones you have now. Stop waiting for that
perfect timing, person. BE YOUR TRUE SELF. Say it all before
you no longer have the privilege of being in the presence of
the one you love, whomever they are."
Mona Wind
photo courtesy by:nuttakit
Have you ever being misunderstood?felt angry for a long time and not resolved it.Life is too short to wait for tragedies to appreciate the love wer're given in our lives.It doesn't matter if its your partner,a family member or a friend.Sometimes love can be toxic and at other times love just needs forgiveness to renew something that was broke.The thing about Family love is no matter how much we all fight,we're back being brother and sister again.If we used this concept in our lives I bet most of our love fears can be fixed.I always get mails from Mona Wind.She said something that was so close to what I'm always writing about I thought I'd share it with you too.We all need a bit of love advice in our lives.You're never too old for it.Read the paragraph below from Mona Wind
"Yes, I have been turned down many a time and misunderstood. Often times it's from the ones I expect will
reciprocate. Oye.. that hurts the most. Yet I understand that the other person might not be ready, doesn't want to or know how to fully receive, is to scared to, or their conditioning stops them.
1. Love is NOT a two way street. Yes, you heard me! It's not, I
love you so you love me. This limited way of being love will
make you sick to your stomach. You'll always be waiting to be
loved when you can just BE LOVE. Every little cell in your
system is filled with love. Only you, your family, society,
beliefs, experiences can shut it down. It is the very fiber of
your being. You can hold it in like bad gas all you want, but
you cannot help but want to express love. Here's a picture of a
cute puppy. I dare you to hold in your love now!
I remember one of my friends saying “I love you,” with deep
emotion. And then he became paralyzed with the outburst of his
true self as if he'd done a hideous thing. That's when I
realized that he had some “rules” and he'd broken them.
2. Love has no rules. That's not love, that's some nonsensical
limitation that says that you're only allowed to love people
who are single, nice, family (unless they're im-perfect!),
friends, pets, plants, love you back, pretty, funny, rich,
handsome, beautiful.... blah blah. This keeps you stuck and
limited in your loving. The most horrific part is that society,
friends, family who believe love is an exchange of energy
between two people that is limited, will limit you as well.
In conclusion, tell whomever you love and want to love that you
love them. Time is flying by (almost 2012), opportunities are
passing, take the ones you have now. Stop waiting for that
perfect timing, person. BE YOUR TRUE SELF. Say it all before
you no longer have the privilege of being in the presence of
the one you love, whomever they are."
Mona Wind
photo courtesy by:nuttakit
