Friday 13 January 2012

WHO'S LIFE ARE YOU LIVING?

BY CYNAID CREE

Even when you are in a relationship you can forget who you are,what your goals where and lose track of all things that make you happy.You forget to take care of yourself because money worries can creep in and suck out all the fun out of your life.Couples always experience this because theres two people that have to take care of each other and their household.Being a couple is no way easy like when you were single always putting yourself first.With relationships comes all kinds of responsibilties which is the reason why many people feel stressed like they are not really living their own life anymore.We live everybody else's life but our own.I always get inspiring mails just when I need it the most and I know all of you have  the same meltdowns at some point or another and asked yourself the same question.Below is an extract by Mona Wind on the very same topic
                  
 ''This past week I have asked a lot of my clients Who's life are you living? What I mean is that 99% of the time we are living out the fantasies and dreams of others. Parents, our friends, society or even who we were in our past lives. Let me expand.When you are in your mothers womb you are listening to her voice and thinking that you are her. What she thinks and feels about herself, the food she's eating, who she's with and what is happening to her is constantly chattering 

through her mind. You are directly connected to her and sense, feel and think whatever she is. If you hear your fathers voice, or whomever else's around her, you will gather that information 
as yours as well.

Within the first three months of being in the womb, your past life karma is downloaded in your spine as karma knots. This 
brings in all the data of all lifetimes you've lived including all the experiences associated with it. All that energy from that 
other person or people you were.Within the first 8-10 years of coming of your mother's womb, your brain is in a hypnotic state picking up the way to be in this reality from the people around you. They teach you what love is, what money is, what sex is, what joy is.  Being that you are incredibly sensitive and pick up everyone's thoughts, feelings at 
all times, you have picked up all the data on how to live life in this reality.  You maybe living other people's life and wondering what's wrong with you!

NOTHING is wrong with you!  You just didn't know you were living 
out other people's realities! Spend a few minutes answering these 
questions.

1. If no thought, feeling, person could come in your way, what 
would YOU like to experience and create?
2. What would you do, be, receive just for the fun of it?
3. Is what you're doing now or what you'd like to do rewarding?

Fun, rewarding, you get to chose! These are all expressions of an 
Infinite Being. That's why you're here, FUN!!!! 

So check and see who's life you're living, and if it's not yours, 
let's make 2012 the year you step in what works, feels good and 
rewards YOU!

I can adore you, can you?
big hug
Mona Wind"



Saturday 7 January 2012

ONLINE LOVE

BY CYNAID CREE
With technology comes new ways of communicating.Love definitely has improved throughout the years with the help of communication.In the old days sweethearts had to wait weeks to receive a love letter from their other half.Long distance relationships was done through formal writing to each other.The initial meeting was possible through train and ship transport and just a letter of an unconfirmed meeting spot.t.Now its so much easier with cars,planes,internet chat and video calling with skype.Its amazing of how much technology has improved and helped love along the way.


Online love is a strange term but with the help of technology,it helps us to create new relationships with people that would not have been possible before.Technology allows us to communicate with someone who we might have been too shy to go up to in a  face to face manner, to begin a conversation with.Not only does communication help start a relationship ,it also helps maintain a relationship too.Soldiers going off to war are now able to communicate with their loved ones through video calling no matter where in the world they are.They are able to be part of an event ,being part of a memory that if it wasn't for technology they would be missing out on.Online love can be seen as dangerous love but i think any relationship can be seen dangerous.Usually you would go out with someone in person if you had a date.This is dangerous as you know nothing about this person and only getting to know this person as you go on these dates.With online dating,you get to know someone through their personality first.You can get to know someone for as long as you like before you decide that you want to meet or really be with them

.Of course once you meet you should pursue this relationship strongly so that you know this person is single and confirm any doubts you may have of someone as in any relationship.If you call them you must be able to get a hold of this person in the day time or night time to confirm that your relationship is legitimate.These are some of the signs you need to watch out for in long distance relationships.However there is nothing we can do to stop technology.If we don't hop on the social bandwagon,we will miss out on a sector of meeting interesting people.In any relationship comes honesty and a trust factor.Technology is only here to simplify our lives and help maintain a great relationship when we find it,as well as however we find it, but it is we that should not abuse it.

photo coutesy by :
renjith krishnan