By CYNAID CREE
Have you ever misplaced an object only to find,how it got to the place it did?I once misplaced a textbook,and you'll never guess where i found it.I looked and looked for a whole day.Eventually it showed up and guess where I found it... in the freezer.I must have opened the freezer to take out something and ended up packing the book away too.I also misplace pens very easily too,but dont we all?You might say those are objects and relationships are much more complex.How is it the same?
Arguments are very similar too.We fight unconsciously and we create more harm than good.We misplace the solutions to arguments we already know so we keep fighting about the same things over and over.Imagine if we knew what we were doing in that moment.We wont be wasting time in an argument about who was right.Instead we would realize there is a problem,fix it and move on living a happier peaceful life every single day.
We are coming to a new age where we all are forced to look deep within ourselves and to be aware of our actions.Divorce may be an easier way to get out of an argument which is not really resolved but how many failed relationships do we need to come to terms with our own actions?Eventually our actions will stare at us and we will be forced to deal with it at some point in our life.Life is like a ferris wheel.I'm amazed how similar it works to the actions of people in society today.You will have a chance to jump in for the ride and when the ride stops,you have to get out too.Each basket eventually comes to a halt,for you to exit the ride.Everybody has to deal with their own challenges in life.If you ignore it,it will come back to you at some point or another to deal with what you supposedly ignored at a previous time.Its always better to deal with an argument in its present stage than years of supressed anger.
SO HOW DO WE DEAL WITH AN ARGUMENT?
-Be aware of each others mistakes
-Correct it but remember it
-Make each other aware of the person that we love the most.Make aware to each other how anger changes us and makes us behave
-Be aware of yourself when anger starts to take control of you.Immediately recogonize whats happening and stop right in that moment.
-Always deal with current problems immediately
-Never bring up the past during an argument in the present or future.You live for today and this will help you become a better person tomorrow
photo courtesy:Photostock
Have you ever misplaced an object only to find,how it got to the place it did?I once misplaced a textbook,and you'll never guess where i found it.I looked and looked for a whole day.Eventually it showed up and guess where I found it... in the freezer.I must have opened the freezer to take out something and ended up packing the book away too.I also misplace pens very easily too,but dont we all?You might say those are objects and relationships are much more complex.How is it the same?
We are coming to a new age where we all are forced to look deep within ourselves and to be aware of our actions.Divorce may be an easier way to get out of an argument which is not really resolved but how many failed relationships do we need to come to terms with our own actions?Eventually our actions will stare at us and we will be forced to deal with it at some point in our life.Life is like a ferris wheel.I'm amazed how similar it works to the actions of people in society today.You will have a chance to jump in for the ride and when the ride stops,you have to get out too.Each basket eventually comes to a halt,for you to exit the ride.Everybody has to deal with their own challenges in life.If you ignore it,it will come back to you at some point or another to deal with what you supposedly ignored at a previous time.Its always better to deal with an argument in its present stage than years of supressed anger.
SO HOW DO WE DEAL WITH AN ARGUMENT?
-Be aware of each others mistakes
-Correct it but remember it
-Make each other aware of the person that we love the most.Make aware to each other how anger changes us and makes us behave
-Be aware of yourself when anger starts to take control of you.Immediately recogonize whats happening and stop right in that moment.
-Always deal with current problems immediately
-Never bring up the past during an argument in the present or future.You live for today and this will help you become a better person tomorrow
photo courtesy:Photostock
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