BY CYNAID CREE
Most people fall in love when they are their happiest self.There is usually something going good for them at this time.This usually allows people to attract their significant other.Most importantly all of their awareness and being is in them during this time which allows love to attract love.How you are feeling is a good indication of who you will attract specifically in this time.
How do you fall out of love?A person has to be physically present in a relationship.By this I mean being physically present in mind awareness too.Once mind awareness has being lost,the relationship starts to fade too.Your body is there,but you as a person and your heart is not there anymore.A relationship is very much like tending to a garden.How often do you de-weed and mow your lawn,everyday,once a week,once in two weeks?What happens when you neglect your garden?You dont see a garden anymore.Theres weeds of every kind,your precious flowers have died and you cant seem to see what you once knew you had.If you tend to your garden once a week,its sufficient to maintain this beautiful garden.With the stresses of everyday life,we sometimes fail to acknowledge what we have, and what we saw when we were in love.How then do people start to fall out of love?.This question is very difficult to answer.Before we can have time to save a dying garden we have to be available to have the time to do it.By this I mean we should start to create the time that is needed to.We become too busy only to realize it when its too late.Most importantly we should be able to acknowledge whats most important to us in our lives first.In a modernized world,we all have to work hard to succeed but not when it distracts your vision so much that you dont see truth and clarity anymore.There was a reason why two people are brought together onto a certain path,call it a blessing or fate but when you begin to see a similar bad pattern in each relationship you definitely dont have your life in order to understand if the relationship you're in is the right one for you or that you are just running away from something that could be a perfect relationship that just needs tending.Realizing your mistakes and correcting it will best help you in your current or future relationship.
photo courtesy: by digitalart
How do you fall out of love?A person has to be physically present in a relationship.By this I mean being physically present in mind awareness too.Once mind awareness has being lost,the relationship starts to fade too.Your body is there,but you as a person and your heart is not there anymore.A relationship is very much like tending to a garden.How often do you de-weed and mow your lawn,everyday,once a week,once in two weeks?What happens when you neglect your garden?You dont see a garden anymore.Theres weeds of every kind,your precious flowers have died and you cant seem to see what you once knew you had.If you tend to your garden once a week,its sufficient to maintain this beautiful garden.With the stresses of everyday life,we sometimes fail to acknowledge what we have, and what we saw when we were in love.How then do people start to fall out of love?.This question is very difficult to answer.Before we can have time to save a dying garden we have to be available to have the time to do it.By this I mean we should start to create the time that is needed to.We become too busy only to realize it when its too late.Most importantly we should be able to acknowledge whats most important to us in our lives first.In a modernized world,we all have to work hard to succeed but not when it distracts your vision so much that you dont see truth and clarity anymore.There was a reason why two people are brought together onto a certain path,call it a blessing or fate but when you begin to see a similar bad pattern in each relationship you definitely dont have your life in order to understand if the relationship you're in is the right one for you or that you are just running away from something that could be a perfect relationship that just needs tending.Realizing your mistakes and correcting it will best help you in your current or future relationship.
photo courtesy: by digitalart
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