BY CYNAID CREE
I was watching a movie the other day where a younger guy asked an older guy for relationship tips.The older guy goes on to say that there is no way that you can lose if you really want to be with someone.Whether you want a girl to like you or love you,the most important thing is to show interest in her.You have to learn to know her
"How do you show interest in someone asked the younger guy?There is so many guys competing to be with her I don't 'know if I can get her attention or even try to compete with these other guys.All the other guys have flashy cars and throwing money at her. I cant seem to compete with something like that.
The older guy says" its not about how much money you have but what you do with the money that you do have thats important.The older guy said I was married to my wife for 55 years.My wife has now died but I will never forget the love we had.It was very simple but very meaningful.I always thought that I needed to compete with somebody else for her love,but really she only ever wanted me to be myself and show it to her .
"But I am myself,I dont think she can like me over a richer guy said the younger guy.
"You're wrong said the older guy.When you ask a girl out for coffee.Do you notice what she orders?Is it black coffee,is it a Cappuccino.Is it one sugar,two or three?Does she have coffee without sugar?There's alot you can learn on a first date.How is your manners?Are you taking her out for coffee?First dates are alot like business meetings.You have just one chance to prove yourself.If you are not successful she wont be meeting you for a second cup of coffee.Á first date is very much like a business meeting.Women decide on the first date if they will be seeing you again on a second date.
"How do you get a second date asked the younger guy.?
''You tell me said the older guy.What have you learned from what I'm telling you.
''Err get her a cup of.....coffee?asked the younger guy?
''Yes something like that said the older guy.You have to gather information from what you seen.If she would like to see you on a second date.Order her coffee before she does or just before she can arrive.So if it was a coffee with 2 sugars.She will know that you took the time to learn something about her and you remembered it.You don't need all the money in the world to do something like this.I'm sure she would appreciate what you did than to someone who just paid the bill but knows nothing about her.
So in 55 years we learned things about each other but most importantly we remembered it.I know what she likes and she knows what I like.A woman wants that you know things about her,and you have to find out by watching her.You cant be all ignorant and expect her to just like you.All you have to do is just watch her and give her what you see she likes.If she drinks a coffee with 2 sugars,give her a coffee with 2 sugars.Ít's that simple.Following the natural order of things.Back then we didn't have Facebook,twitter, myspace,his space ,her space.We just relied on pure determination to succeed to get what we wanted.At some point in your life,if you want something you have to go get it yourself.You cant rely on other people or even technology.Good old fashioned straight up face to face talk.You can never go wrong,just don't let fear come in between your chance to love.''
photo courtesy of: Stuart Miles
I was watching a movie the other day where a younger guy asked an older guy for relationship tips.The older guy goes on to say that there is no way that you can lose if you really want to be with someone.Whether you want a girl to like you or love you,the most important thing is to show interest in her.You have to learn to know her
"How do you show interest in someone asked the younger guy?There is so many guys competing to be with her I don't 'know if I can get her attention or even try to compete with these other guys.All the other guys have flashy cars and throwing money at her. I cant seem to compete with something like that.
The older guy says" its not about how much money you have but what you do with the money that you do have thats important.The older guy said I was married to my wife for 55 years.My wife has now died but I will never forget the love we had.It was very simple but very meaningful.I always thought that I needed to compete with somebody else for her love,but really she only ever wanted me to be myself and show it to her .
"But I am myself,I dont think she can like me over a richer guy said the younger guy.
"You're wrong said the older guy.When you ask a girl out for coffee.Do you notice what she orders?Is it black coffee,is it a Cappuccino.Is it one sugar,two or three?Does she have coffee without sugar?There's alot you can learn on a first date.How is your manners?Are you taking her out for coffee?First dates are alot like business meetings.You have just one chance to prove yourself.If you are not successful she wont be meeting you for a second cup of coffee.Á first date is very much like a business meeting.Women decide on the first date if they will be seeing you again on a second date.
"How do you get a second date asked the younger guy.?
''You tell me said the older guy.What have you learned from what I'm telling you.
''Err get her a cup of.....coffee?asked the younger guy?
''Yes something like that said the older guy.You have to gather information from what you seen.If she would like to see you on a second date.Order her coffee before she does or just before she can arrive.So if it was a coffee with 2 sugars.She will know that you took the time to learn something about her and you remembered it.You don't need all the money in the world to do something like this.I'm sure she would appreciate what you did than to someone who just paid the bill but knows nothing about her.
So in 55 years we learned things about each other but most importantly we remembered it.I know what she likes and she knows what I like.A woman wants that you know things about her,and you have to find out by watching her.You cant be all ignorant and expect her to just like you.All you have to do is just watch her and give her what you see she likes.If she drinks a coffee with 2 sugars,give her a coffee with 2 sugars.Ít's that simple.Following the natural order of things.Back then we didn't have Facebook,twitter, myspace,his space ,her space.We just relied on pure determination to succeed to get what we wanted.At some point in your life,if you want something you have to go get it yourself.You cant rely on other people or even technology.Good old fashioned straight up face to face talk.You can never go wrong,just don't let fear come in between your chance to love.''
photo courtesy of: Stuart Miles
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